[If you don’t have a romantic valentine for this week, consider sharing my Best Friend. He is able to be your perfect friend as well as mine, and treat each one exactly as we most need Him to be - the Ultimate Lover of our souls].
Allow me to rave and rhapsodize about my very best Friend in the universe!
My friendship with Jesus colours and affects every other friendship I have. Whether the other parties know it or not. If I did not have my intimate daily conversations with Him, I would not be the kind of person you’d even want to have around, never mind call your friend. Jesus gives me sanity. He gives me a calm acceptance of myself, and yes, even a caring interest in others.
He has never deserted me, though I’ve been driven to tears by His apparent silence. Then later I learned as I dig into the Bible, that it is His method of showing me I’ve wandered off the right path. It means I need to stop and consider where I’m going and make a decision to get back on the path. (He’s quite willing to help once I’ve made that decision of my own will!)
Which reminds me to point out that although Jesus loves me tremendously, and has laid down His life for me, He will never compromise truth and justice, or God’s own holiness, to pamper me or cater to my whims.
Truth is… well, it’s the essence of my dear Lord and Friend. It’s His very nature, mixed with love, joy and peace. So hanging out with Him has got me craving for truth at the core of my being. I want to know and believe the absolute truths He teaches.
Want to know why? Because those truths liberate me to experience His love, joy and peace to ecstatic degrees.
Example? Okay, once I really chose to believe God loves me and is carrying me on His arms (Deut.33:27) it took away all the doubts about whether or not I could really publish my book. When I saw Jesus’ commands to Ask, Seek and Knock, and the promised results as real guarantees, I got a great respect for praying very specifically, hunting for knowledge that I lacked, and knocking on certain doors of opportunity. The key turned in the lock!
It’s in these learning experiences, and unloading all my desires, ideas, and emotions, whether positive or negative, on Jesus that we have a lively relationship.
That same lively relationship teaches me how to care for others, and causes me to be the sort of friend to them that Jesus is to me. Now I know this is usually an unspoken, maybe only faintly understood sub-current in many other’s lives, but I’m being very transparent and direct here right now as I spell out this super-special friendship I have with my Best Friend of all.
Sometimes a good “honesty-session” is like the sun coming out on a misty, foggy day. May this frank Close up of Jesus be like brightening, healing, cheering sunlight to you. Reach out. He’s great enough to be the best Friend of everybody in the whole world.
In fact, that’s why He died on that Precious Friday some 2000 years ago - for every-body to get up close and personal with Him!