“The RoseBouquet”

July 15, 2008

New Pages on Clients’ Sites

Filed under: Tips & Solutions — Ruth @ 12:00 pm

I’m aware of new stuff on several clients’ sites that you might find interesting and would not likely discover by yourself. Let me steer you to go see them.

Tiowa Diarra of Mali, West Africa, asked me to put some profiles of children who need help getting an education on his profile sub-domain. There’s 24 of them linked to this index; Bethany Children

Betty Bradley Bailey of Rose Hill, Kansas has put a store up on her site, which sells her artwork specializing in babies and flowers, all in support of her main passion, prolife work. Children-of-the-Heart click on the “store” link to find the artwork, but do take time to read her poetry and other pages too.

April Boyer has added a new sub-domain to her site, to offer her editorial services. There’s also a friendly, inspirational one which focuses on her role as “Gramma Apple.”

MannaPublications.org/P/Childrens.shtml has a selection of children’s colouring books now that you can print out and let your children use. If you teach Sunday School or VBS you may even want to make copies to pass around to the whole class.

A Basic Primer to Avoid Scams

Filed under: Ruthe's Roses, The Kingdom of Jesus — Ruth @ 11:54 am

I’ve been online since early 1999, and I’ve come through many stages of learning what to do and what to watch out for. Sometimes I get to feeling that everyone else must know what I know because at the beginning I was sure everyone else knew far more than I did. That is not so any more, and once in a while I get a wake up when I see that someone has fallen for a scam that would never occur to me - now.

It seems wise then to review some basic guidelines so that you don’t get “fleeced” if you have not been warned and fall for some lies.

You may already know that to avoid mail theft, you simply have your government checks directly deposited into your account. Online you can take similar precautions with your email address. I am convinced there are people out there who deliberately start one of those cute or inspirational “Forwards” that they send to all their friends and contacts, and ask to pass it on. They know that few know about hiding the email addresses of their contact list, so eventually it will come back to them, and they can harvest a whole bunch of addresses for their more serious sp-amm-ing emails. At the very least, learn to use Blind-Carbon-Copy (Bcc) in your email program if you MUST mail to a whole bunch of people at one time. But I highly recommend making a personal policy of NOT forwarding those emails.

It doesn’t take long, after you start surfing around and visiting various websites, and getting emails from strangers, that you hear about these fantastic opportunities to make money. All you do is fork over so and so much money, and then it will all happen for you. I still blush when I think how I fell for a chance to make $30,000 in 90 days. Fortunately I was too poor to pay for the advanced package. I learned on a lot of free programs. I thank God now for keeping me poor through those early years.

If your intuition tells you there must be a flaw with this idea, then there likely is. I suggest you put the idea on ice for a while, and go do some online research. Put that company or program’s name into Google or one of the search engines, and read everything you can find that mentions them, including the posts on forums where others ask about them and more experienced people will give cautions or warnings depending on what has happened to them.

Recently I met a woman who had paid over $1000 to join a program that would give her some websites with affiliate programs, which should bring her a good income. She asked me to look it over, as it had only made her $18 and she was feeling nervous. When I saw their plan I gasped. They had charged her that much money for something she could do for free on the internet?! Oh-my-no!

Anyone can sign up as an Amazon affiliate for free and put links on your site to sell their products. Pretty well, any affiliate program that charges you to sign up is a fraud. What this company didn’t tell her, after some phone calls to pressure her to buy, was that now she was expected to promote those generic sites, and hope that visitors would click on those affiliate links and go buy in droves. If she claimed not to know how to do that, they charged her again and again for free classified ads!

I felt sick for her as I explained that it is possible to get a domain name at GoDaddy.com for under $10 and someone like me can give her hosting at just $12/year. Then shes can learn to put on a website, and free affiliate links, and learn to market her site in a professional manner just like the rest of us. It will take time, but in the end, it works.

Naturally, I added that I’m learning how building a SiteBuildIt! (SBI) site offers video training and helps one learn to do that in just a few months. That really shortens the learning curve. I’m rather excited about my discoveries in that regard the last few months.

Learning to do sound research online is one of the best things you can do to protect yourself, but if my word has any weight with you, here’s a few other scams to pass on the other side of the cyber-street;

- avoid like the plague those emails from someone in Africa begging for help to transfer money (known as Nigerian Scams). DELETE!

- avoid offers of quick and easy get-rich jobs or schemes

- be wary of phony Identity Theft Protection or Credit Repair Scams

- flee from “You’ve Won a Prize!” Lottery Scam

- be careful of Auction Fraud (eBay and Yahoo Auctions) where you pay but they don’t send

- never give in to anyone who insists you must decide right now! They are afraid you’ll find out about them.

- would you ask strangers to help you with large sums of money? Something is fishy when someone chooses you, from around the globe, to help them with millions of dollars. Don’t fall for the trap!

One thing I found helpful was to sign up for someone’s regular ezine for a while to get to know them better, however, even then, don’t use your good regular email address. Get a free disposable one online, and use that to sign up. If this site owner starts sending you emails far too frequently, insisting you must buy this or that, you want to be able to get of them, and if they won’t stop when you unsubscribe, you want to abandon that email address, without having to start over with all your other safe friends and relatives.

Most are quite ethical about not mailing to you when you unsubscribe, but some of them share their mailing list with others, so you could start getting emails from people you never heard of before. Bad news if you used your good primary email address.

Don’t let fear tie you in knots. Just learn to say “NO” until you can research and find out if a deal is safe and good for you. Wise King Solomon said (in Proverbs) that there is safety in getting lots of advice before deciding anything. God is very interested in your online ventures too; and He’s fully informed!

July 8, 2008

At My Place…Oh No, My Trees!

Filed under: At My Place... — Ruth @ 12:04 pm

Last Wednesday when I came walking back home from my office, my neighbours on the corner were waiting to ask me to move my car in the back, as they were cutting down the tree. The one that was technically on my property but affecting the garage they are building at the back of their yard. Michelle’s brother, who seems to be a tree cutter, and her dad were back there, and had already started. When I got there, they were ready to remove more of it. they showed me how the chunks they had cut were hollow and that hollow FILLED with large, moving ants!

(I only got there later with the camera). fence built around that tree with a hole to accommodate a branch

tree chunks showing hollow inside I had been so glad that my property had trees, but what could I say? Okay, take that tree down. But then this Mike pointed out that all the trees on my property were volunteer trees. They had grown up because nobody had weeded them out when they were suckers. He pointed out how the one behind my shed is waiting to have branches broken off, and has some disease in the leaves.

I allowed as he might be able to take down the branch hanging over Joe’s garage on the other side, and likely to fall down in a strong wind, but I didn’t think he needed to cut that tree all the way down. (His dad was busy promising me that they’d clean everything up for me).

A bit later I found them in the front yard. Mike came up close to examine the tree close to my living room window which Joe and I had cut down last November because it was rubbing on my roof. We had left a stump of about 4 feet high, and about 5 or 6 inches across. This spring it shot out new branches! Green ones, to be sure, and full of leaves, but it now looks like a shrub (it was in last week’s garden photo story).

When I came out he pointed out that the green branches would soon thicken up and that tree would start crowding my house. Minutes later were were looking at the bigger tree out near the sidewalk and street. Right in the Y joint of the two main trunks, we saw something I had not noticed before. A brown foam seems to be coming out - like when something has begun to ferment!

Oh no! Am I going to lose all my trees? I began to feel a bit peeved, although I tried to keep up a good front. Mike’s tree saw had just broken so he had to leave to get it fixed, but he offered to take the dead branches out that are hanging in the tree. I’ll be glad to see him do that, but I have a sinking feeling that I’ll have to give up that whole tree eventually too.

I can’t afford to have mature trees balled and planted here. So I’m feeling a bit down on the mouth over that. Much as I appreciate that they are offering to remove these bad trees at no cost to me. I try not to think about it too much.

Lessons For and From a Tutoring Client

Filed under: What's New! — Ruth @ 12:01 pm

My, but I do get some interesting feedback whenever I mention my cat, Snowflake. :) But I must restrain myself some weeks for the sake of those who would rather I talk about other things. Got some nice comments too, on my flag-waving.

I had a private tutoring client yesterday afternoon, and will have another session with her this afternoon. This is a lot of fun. Especially starting to put together a power point.

They say that one way to discover your special skills and gifts is to notice when you enjoy your work the most. Well, I sure do have a great time when I am showing someone else little tricks and methods at their computer that they didn’t know before. I find that quite fulfilling. So I am encouraged that my plan to offer my projected course this fall is a good move. I’m going to enjoy doing that!

But I also discovered an outright scam she had fallen for. She got fleeced!

I had a little shock though, when I showed her my aloe-vera-and-handy-herbs site on her laptop. I had no idea that Internet Explorer made it look so distorted! Not at all as nice as in Firefox. I will have to take that in hand tomorrow and see if I can fix it. I had just got a nice long page on mint up on Saturday night, and thought I was coming along well.

Reason # 2 - to Buy and Read “Ruthe’s Secret Roses”

Filed under: Tips & Solutions — Ruth @ 11:58 am

You don’t really have time to read on the couch, do you? But if you’re like me, you do read snatches on the run, and somehow make time to read a GOOD book completely.

So how can you be sure this Ruthe in the book is not some kook? Read the eight sample chapters to find out.

How to Build a Web site in One Afternoon

Filed under: Ruthe's Roses — Ruth @ 11:55 am

I am still convinced that it takes a good three to four months to build a decent website, if you are only working on it two or three days a week. But in spring I had someone insist that he wanted a website in a big hurry. I managed to pull it off in one afternoon. Now someone else is asking for this, so I thought I’d lay out the barebones minimum. But I’m afraid my attitude will still be that you should spend more time at it.

A web site can be compared to a flyer nailed to a power pole on the street corner, or a kiosk in a mall, or a large department store or even a small college. What scale have you got in mind? A website whipped up in an afternoon or evening is likely to be nothing more than a poster or flyer.

First, let me point out your range of options.
1. You could shop around for a web designer, and pay anywhere from $85/hr to $5000 for a simple site of three to six pages. You would likely have to pay a handsome fee for any changes or updates you want later on.

2. I would highly recommend getting a SiteBuildIt subscription for $299/year, (or less when there’s a holiday special). Nothing is taken for granted as you are guide through the whole process of building a web business, not just a site. You would be the master of the whole thing and understand exactly each step you take. - Or, you could have the experts do it for you, for about $2000.

3. You can do-it-yourself (D-I-Y). Of couse, the more you already know the faster it will go. Assuming you don’t get distracted. From experience that if you have more time than money, it is a good way to go.

Let me outline this third option in greater detail.

Preparation -

Take time to research and study the topics you are interested in, and look for sample sites to see how they handle the topic. You should not steal content, but you can certainly borrow ideas as springboards for your own original treatment of the subject.

Domain name and Hosting -

Here are your main costs. You need to register a domain name, and it is possible to get one for under $10 at GoDaddy. (Perhaps some other places too). When you have brain-stormed for just the right domain name, and found it available, you can register it in about 10 minutes or less. If you know where you will be hosting the site, you can enter the DNS addresses at the same time.

Then you need a host, a place where your site can be set up for the world to see. Here you must pay fees like rent or a lease for your website or business. It pays to shop around, because this is a huge opportunity for hosts to make money. I have a reseller package, so for friends who have honourable plans for their site, I offer them a good deal with hosting that just costs $12/year for 100 MB. (I have two larger packages but most sites under 50-100 pages will fit on the small one). When your host provides the DNS addresses, you must go enter them at the domain registrar, if you didn’t do it earlier.

Building and Publishing Your Website -

You really need two programs on your computer to build a site. They may already be on your computer, but if not, you can download some of these for free. No need to spend money here. One is an HTML editor program, in which you create and code your web pages. I love and recommend Quanta Plus for Linux systems, but there are others for Windows too.

The other is an FTP program to upload the pages to your hosting account. If you have Firefox for a browser, you can just download their FireFTP program as an extension and it works right in your browser window. But there are many other free ones.

There are also many websites that give basic lessons in coding a web page, although some HTML editors have features that allow you to put a page together without even looking at the codes. (Be aware that some day you are going to need to fix things in the coding though).

If someone helps you find and choose a simple template for your web pages, then you can sale along faster, by merely putting your content - the information you want to share in the specified areas. Name the page, and check it over in a preview mode. (The first one has to be called index.html, or index.shtml, or default.html - index.php works if you’re using php scripts on the page).

Uploading Your Web Pages -

Usually one can’t wait to see that first page up in a browser, so you go into your ftp program, set it up to access your private ftp address, and drag the first page from the one window pane showing your page on yoru computer, to the other window pane, which shows what is up on your site. Presto. Now hurry off to your browser to see how it shows up there.

If you are promoting affiliate links that will benefit you, you can of course, include them on your web page.

Getting Visitors -

Just recently I wrote an article on my blog about how to draw traffic to your site; When You Really want Visitors to Come. I’ll let you jump there to get more details. That is usually not something you will accomplish on the same afternoon as you do all the above.

Remember a site is like getting a new family member or pet. There is the continual maintenance that must become part of your life as you care for and feed your site. With time you can have a very productive and fulfilling website. May that be your case!

July 1, 2008

Come See My Garden Grow

Filed under: At My Place... — Ruth @ 1:49 pm

Well, this is the week of national holidays, isn’t it? This week Friday it is the American Independence Day. It is Canada Day here today, on July 1. My neighbours, Joe and Penny, are celebrating both. I’m spending today at home preparing this issue of the RoseBouquet for my bouquet of friends. And whew, preparing these photo stories is some time-consuming work. I enjoy it but the hours do fly by.

So this morning I have just finished a long photo story page on my garden this spring. My Garden in May and June

Incidentally, this week we seem to finally have the heat of the summer upon us. I know that many of you live in areas where it has been quite hot for weeks on end already. I can now identify with you. I was getting warm enough in my little house on Sunday to start using my fan. Yesterday, I asked Joe to come in and put my window box air conditioner back in the pantry window. I only use it when I really feel I must, but it is nice to know I have it.

More Minor Victories

Filed under: What's New! — Ruth @ 1:47 pm

Since this is a holiday, and my news is basically more of the same, I’ll keep this short.

I was able to do my aloe vera site over with some css and includes advantages last week, and even add three pages. I hope I can pick up my pace now.

However, I’m still giving three mornings a week to work at my office and get those old computers ready. I had a great day last Friday when I got my brother’s old computer humming nicely with Suse 110. Then yesterday I was able to get two others loaded with Debian! Hurrah!

I’ve come to see that they do better if I add more memory and a couple of them needed a few other items. I was going to shop online for them, and then decided to dismantle that other computer and use it’s parts. That got one of them up and roaring like new. I’m still scrounging for more memory strips.

I really prayed about this whole matter on Sunday, and I’m confident this phase is soon going to be done, and I can move on to preparing a Saturday workshop to offer.

Online Video Treats

Filed under: Tips & Solutions — Ruth @ 1:44 pm

Yesterday two links to very interesting videos came to me. If you are interested in books and the publishing of them, you may be very interested to learn that there are now machines going up in certain universities and bookstores, which are like a printing press in a kiosk. You can watch a book being printed and bound and ready to read in about three minutes! Yes, the publishing world is on the move! OnDemandBooks

The other video is a testimony of a man from Australia born without limbs. This Nick sounds so healthy and whole that it takes peoples’ breath away. Nick’s Testimony

Note: if you have an older computer with less than 1 GB of memory (RAM), you’ll likely find that online videos stop and start over and over as they are buffering into your small memory space. That can be frustrating. Here’s a tip. Let it play through jerky once, and go do something else. When it is finally done, hit “Replay” and then you will see the video smoothly without interruptions.

Waving my Canadian Flag

Filed under: Ruthe's Roses — Ruth @ 1:40 pm

Canadians have a reputation in other countries for being very polite and cooperative; I think I know why. When immigrants move to the United States they are absorbed into the American culture, which is referred to as a melting pot. But in Canada the various cultures group together in clusters, and maintain their old ways as long as they can. I suspect each of us thinks sub-consciously; “I’m from this small minority group, so I better not rock the boat.”

My forefathers and their families arrived here from the Mennonite colonies in the Ukraine, where they had already kept to themselves, back in 1875. They settled first in southern Manitoba, and then the next generation spread further west into what was only later carved into two new provinces, Saskatchewan and Alberta. I’m very familiar with my culture and clan history, but I know that there are many other cultures in this country, and their people do much the same thing - they stay close together until about the third generation, and then they ease into the general population more. Like magnetic iron particles, they quickly pull together in times of crisis though.

Those who travel abroad say, when they return, that they never fully understood the great value of being a Canadian until they were elsewhere. Since I haven’t traveled abroad, except for a few short trips over the border into the USA, I have to pause and think about this. What exactly has Canada, and my province, Saskatchewan, given to me or allowed me to do? Why should I be glad to be a Canadian?

Going back to my forefathers, they came here for religious freedom, and to get away from war. The advance representatives were able to negotiate a special document from the Canadian government that guaranteed they would not have to take up arms, and they could teach their children their faith in their own religious schools. In the 1920s that seemed to be rescinded, so large numbers of them packed up to start over again in Mexico and Central and South America.

For myself, I have to say that there has been no war in my own lifetime, and although I went to a public school, it was in many ways a Christian school because the leaders in our community were Christian and had the freedom to set good, moral guidelines.

My parents were second generation pioneers, and I’m old enough to remember a lot of those struggling to survive years. It is my own generation that has benefited from all that hard work, and now coasts on good jobs, and homes, and many of them (I’m still excluding myself because I’m addicted to hard work) are taking vacations and exploring the world like regular middle and upper class citizens.

For myself, I’m beginning to see the privilege of being allowed to try creative things like writing books, starting a business, and pioneering in my own areas of interest. A generation or two ago, I might have been stuck milking cows, baking bread, and if brave enough, being allowed to take the horse and buggy to church by myself. I would also be thought incomplete for being single at my age.

Knowing the tendency of my feet to cramp and freeze in our cold winters, I would have been a frustrated home-body, and I might not even have survived to this age because of wrestles with stubborn horses.

However, I thank God that I grew up when and where I did. I’ve often been impatient for the next thing, but by starting school a year later than others I missed being slapped for being a lefty, and I learned to read like a house-afire. I got to finish high school. I was able to buy a car and live by myself in the city, and grow independent. After I paid off my car I drove for four days to Ontario and lived there for 12 years, making friends and learning many things I don’t think would have happened in my home town.

I’m back in Saskatchewan where we seem to specialize in raising creative people as well as being the bread basket of the world with all our vast wheat fields. True for the last decade or two, people were leaving in droves for better jobs elsewhere, and folks would joke, “the last one to go, please turn off the lights!” But in the last year or so things are turning around, and now people are moving back here in large numbers. The economy is picking up, and the construction industry literally booming.

We’re not a backwoods country. Please note that there are more computers per capita in Canada than any other country, and here in Saskatchewan, Sasktel has brought internet connections to the rural fields and forests, and many small towns have high speed already. When you get around on the internet, you discover that a lot of the well-known names of online entrepreneurs are Canadians, operating world-wide from their basement or home office. (I like to click on About Us links, and find out who is behind a site, and where they are located. It has happened many times that I’ve discovered fellow Canadians!)

Our flat prairie horizons may look boring to some. I thought so for years, until I started watching the skies when I drove along the highways. What a fabulous artist’s canvas! Colours were shifting about in amazing patterns continually. In fact, we now have on our license plates this catch phrase to describe Saskatchewan, The Land of the Living Skies. For the most part it is filled with immeasurable quantities of pure oxygen!

Much as I want to look for positives only, I’m not blind to some faults in my beautiful and generous country. I can overlook a lot of small matters, but I sure do wish we had morally stronger politicians who were not afraid to stand up against wrong, and do what is right. Canada, politically, seems to have slipped into a very secular mind-set, and so accepting of others, that it no longer has the courage to call sin SIN. Those of us who have moral concerns are considered oddballs, and the ones to guard against.

Ah, but the God who made this wonderful country is also the ultimate Judge, and He will see that all wrongs are righted, and the wicked will receive their fair punishments.

One more thought comes to me. I am a passing pilgrim in Canada. I have a citizenship in an even more fantastic country to which I will emigrate myself one day!

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